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Friday, April 6, 2012

simplifying - spending less money


For 25 years, I’ve known this moment was coming.  My mom and dad aren’t going to pay for everything anymore ………. cut off?!  I can get a little out of control when it comes to shopping (see outfit posts).  I also see my spending becoming ridiculous as one friend after another gets hitched.  Weddings, showers, bachelorette parties, and bridesmaid’s dresses are expensive.  Since at this point, my income is $0, my spending should be $0.  I did not spend money on clothes/shoes/etc. AT ALL in January, which was a great start to the year.  I’ve also taken my dad’s advice to give gifts that are enough to show I am thinking about someone rather than expensive gifts.  Thank goodness I have savings and I’ll have a job soon. 

Until then, I’ll keep reading The Sound Mind Investing Handbook that my dad gave me for Christmas.  I picked up the book when I couldn’t sleep and had budgeting on my mind, hoping for a sample budget worksheet.  But as far as I’ve read, the book has focused on reasons to get out of debt.  I do have a blank budget spreadsheet from my internship supervisor, which I think will be helpful when I actually start to make a budget.  I’m holding off on making a budget until I get hired and know what my income will be.  Fortunately, I’ll still be living at home and driving my mom’s old car for as long as I can stand it, so my major expenses are covered.  Cut off, not so much. 

I’ve considered some kind of system such as giving away two things in my closet for each thing I buy, which ties into having less stuff as well.  And as mentioned, I didn’t shop at all in January, which wasn’t really on purpose.  As I’ve attempted to clean out my room, I’ve become more mindful of only buying and keeping things that I really need/love/will use, but it hasn’t convinced me to make any hard and fast rules for my spending. 

Any budgeting tips or suggestions for spending less?

Thursday, April 5, 2012

simplifying - on the internet


I am trying to simplify my life in 2012 in several ways.  The urge to purge heightened when I moved home --  It's great to have all of my stuff in one place finally, but it's so so so much stuff.  My simplification has taken three forms so far: having less stuff, spending less money, and doing less on the internet.

Today I'll hit the highlights of online simplification.  Yes, I realize it's ironic to blog about doing less on the internet.  But in this way, I have not simplified by using the internet less; I have organized what I do on the internet in a better way, and I have accessed the internet in fewer ways.  What does that mean?  First, I have decreased the number of emails that I get regularly by unsubscribing from lists.  I appreciate my friends inviting me to great deals from Gilt and Rue La La, for example, and I like things that I find on One Kings Lane, but despite having subscriptions to these websites, I never bought anything from them.  I don't need to spend the money, and I don't have a house to decorate.  Secondly, I deactivated Facebook.  I've considered getting off of Facebook for a while, but applying for jobs was the motivation I needed to finally do it.  After I get hired, I plan to log on, save the photos that I only have on Facebook (not in an album on my computer), and quit for good.  Hold me to this one!  I still have an internet presence through Twitter, Blogger, LinkedIn, Pinterest, and Phi Mu Bloom, but that’s less than it used to be.  Each of those accounts is either something that I feel necessary for my career or something that I really enjoy. 
 
Any suggestions for simplifying your online life?






Friday, March 23, 2012

what I've been wearing lately

On my birthday, I went out to eat with my family.  What better excuse to wear lots of sparkles than your birthday?  Sadly, it was raining, but that meant an opportunity to match my Hunter green boots with the green in this plaid.  This outfit combines several elements I was loving for our 2-3 day winter: button downs, plaid, sparkles, skinny pants.

shirt - J. Crew
pants - Joe's jeans 
jacket - Anthropologie
boots - Hunter
necklace -Rent the Runway (clearance sale)
nails - OPI Big Apple Red

I wore the following three outfits to my internship at an elementary school.  The warm weather has made dressing appropriately for work difficult, but I'm happy that it's finally spring; I feel like it's okay to go bare legged.


 shirt - Ralph Lauren boys (hand me down)
pants - J. Crew
belt - J. Crew
scarf - hand me down from Mom
watch - Michael Kors
bag - Vera Bradley (probably from high school, but I still love this bee and floral print!)
nails - OPI My Chihuahua Bites

dress and sweater - J. Crew outlet
shoes - Forever 21
watch - Michael Kors

shirt - Ralph Lauren (hand me down)
skirt - J. Crew
blazer - J. Crew
shoes - Jack Rogers
necklace - Handpicked
watch - Michael Kors